If It Costs You Money Every Time You See Her, That’s Prostitution, Not a Relationship” – Nollywood Actor Jim Iyke Advises Men
Nollywood star Jim Iyke has sparked conversations online with a blunt advice directed at men regarding modern relationships. In a message shared on his Instagram story and widely circulated on social media, the actor warned male folks: “If it costs you money every time you see her, that’s prostitution and not a relationship.” Iyke urged men to “wise up,” emphasizing that a man should be “the prize” rather than constantly footing bills for every meeting or visit. He reportedly added that a significant percentage of such dynamics resemble transactional arrangements rather than genuine emotional connections. The comment has gone viral, especially on platforms like Facebook, Instagram, and X (formerly Twitter), where users are sharing screenshots and debating its implications for dating culture in Nigeria and beyond. Many have praised Iyke for his straightforward take, arguing it highlights the difference between mutual relationships built on love, respect, and shared values versus o...